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life advices

  1. People judge you more on confidence than competence. Acting like you belong somewhere gets you further than proving you deserve to be there. Certainty sells better than credentials.

  2. Saying ‘im so dumb’ when doing something wrong instead of defending it. You’ll be forgiven much quicker.

  3. Unless someone tells me they have a problem with me explicitly and to my face, I will choose to assume that there’s nothing wrong. Even if they’re being passive aggressive or rude, if it’s not a big enough deal for them to tell me to my face, it’s not a big enough deal for me to worry about.

  4. Time off. Not my bosses business to know what I have going on. I just tell them I need the day off for something important. My boss doesn’t get to dictate what is and isn’t important in MY life.

  5. I always say I’m looking at other offers when interviewing for a job and use the words “I have been offered (some higher ballpark) by others, can you find that in your budget?” Even if they’re the only ones I’m interviewing with at that time

  6. I’m always asking questions and gathering resources and planning ahead for the business as thought I plan to be there for years. Then quit a month later.

  7. Be purely transactional at work. No friends, no favors, no nothing except money.

  8. You really don’t need a ring tone. My phone has been on silent for 10 years and I don’t miss calls. Your spirit will sense the call come in from the important ppl. Keep your peace!

  9. Acting like you belong solves a LOT of problems.

  10. “not my circus, not my monkeys” gets you out of a lot of shit you really didn’t wanna deal with!

  11. The loudest person is always the one heard.

  12. When someone offers you something, say yes. Social obligation often makes us say “No thank you” right off the bat but they’re offering. Take the offer. Don’t talk yourself out of it. They wouldn’t ask if they didn’t mean it.

  13. Double your salary -> Every Six months you should be interviewing in another company. Apply to more Jobs. You still don’t know how much money you are worth. May be when you got that Job you under leveled yourself. You’re a junior engineer should be senior engineer. You learn so much by doing interviews all the time. Even if you got a offer from a company you don’t wanna work at, may be you can use that to negotiate higher salary at your current job. There is no reason to not to be doing interview all the time, other than you don’t like making more money. do more interviews, get over the fear. they suck they are scary. If you don’t get over that you will not be making money you worth. Please do more interviews. src: Theo https://www.youtube.com/shorts/x71Rm0MWVHY

  14. Just fucking ask for things. Favours, promotions, sales, referrals, interviews and etc.. Be tactful and polite, but don’t ever be shy about pursuing what you want. You might be surprised at how often people simply say “yes”. Knock, and doors will open for you.

  15. People are strange They’ll lose their minds over. delayed train. Snap over a slow barista, Lets a spilled coffee ruin their day. But when it comes to big stuff… Staying in wrong job. Letting their dreams die quietly. Wasting years on autopilot. Nothing No urgency. Stop treating small problems like emergencies and real emergencies like background noise. You’re misfiring your energy bro. Go Direct it towards your dying potential.

  16. Fuck being shy Fuck being timid Stop hiding in your shell You’re a man, talk to people everywhere you go. You never know what kind of connections you’ll create just by opening your mouth. Closed mouth don’t get fed bro. You don’t hate small talk, you are just bad at it. Stop using your introversion as an excuse, Do not underestimate small talk. You don’t get into deep conversation without the small talk. You don’t get close huge deals with people without small talk.

  17. If you’re stuck, just take a trip Go to Dubai, Miami, LA, Qatar, Monaco, THE BIG PLACES It will expand your mind the energy is just way different. If you don’t have funds to go to abroad, go to most expensive hotel in your city. Soak in the affluent energy, and allow it to fuel you to the next level.

  18. Duality is underrated Work like an artist. Train like an athlete. Run fast. Walk slow. Be relentless and relaxed all at once. Grind hard. Rest hard. Stay up 3 days straight to bring idea to life. Every day should contain its own heaven and hell. Extremes where life is best lived.

19.Get out of your fucking room. Pack your laptop and go to a coffee shop. A hotel. Rent a bnb for the weekend. Go to a different city. Go ANYWHERE but your room… Staying in your room is killing your thought process. The amount of new ideas you get when you switch locations is INSANE. Go & touch some grass lil bro

  1. nobody claps unless everybody claps https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKzmWbjSHHS/?igsh=YWlhYzU5MmRwN3Fw

  2. Book is Judged by its cover.

There is famous saying don’t judge book by cover and let me tell you, everyone have biases and these biases are most of the time inherent and we ourself never know its happening. So better do your skin care, wear expensive looking clothes, be good at small talks.